Resources for Betrayed Spouses

When you discover that your spouse is involved with pornography, had an affair, or engages in other unwanted sexual behaviors, it's normal to experience very legitimate and overwhelming negative emotions. It can be difficult to know exactly how to respond.

RECLAIM offers resources to help betrayed spouses find their own healing and, if appropriate, assist the betraying spouse.

​Although it's normal and natural to feel isolated and unique in your struggles, YOU ARE NOT ALONE!

​We provide support to spouses all over the world, and many are facing challenges very similar to those you struggle with.

NAVIGATE Betrayal is our on-line program for betrayed spouses.

​In the program, you will learn:

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• How to start down the path to your own healing

• How to engage in your own self-care

• How to set boundaries 

• How to evaluate your relationship options​

​NAVIGATE Betrayal is a Catholic online program offering support from caring professionals and women who know the pain of sexual betrayal.

Fighting For Your Marriage: Hope and Help for the Wife of a Porn Addict

This book is written for women whose husbands have strayed sexually with the use of pornography. The perspective of this resource focuses on pornography use, but is applicable for healing from any form of infidelity. Written by two women who understand the situation from first hand experience. They share insights and suggestions that offer hope for healing both the wife, her husband, and the marriage.

Resources for Parents

As a parent, when you discover a teen or adult child's involvement in pornography or other unhealthy sexual behavior, it's very normal and natural to feel like you've failed, or to be upset or embarrassed by what's happening. We can assure you that YOU ARE NOT ALONE! At RECLAIM, we provide support to individuals all over the world, and many are facing challenges very similar to those you struggle with.

In the free RECLAIM Parent Training you'll learn about the brain science behind your child's pornography use and other unwanted sexual behaviors. You'll learn how these behaviors create a literal chemical dependency in the brain, very similar to street drugs. You're probably wondering, "What can I say or do to help my loved one break out of this terrible trap?" In the training, you will learn the most effective ways to help your child, and how to avoid the approaches that can actually deepen the addiction. Your participation in your loved one's recovery journey is a critical part of maximizing their success, and strengthening the all-important child-parent relationship you share.

Rescuing Our Youth From the Porn Trap: Parent Primer Guidebook 

Rescuing Our Youth From the Porn Trap: Parent Primer brings light into the darkness of the pornography epidemic by providing vital information and practical tools parents can use to both protect and heal the purity of their children.

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The approach in this parent primer combines faith and prayer with cutting edge research on the brain science of addiction.  This Primer provides vital information and practical tools parents can use to both protect and heal the purity of their children.

Resources for Clergy

As a religious leader, you may feel overwhelmed by the rapidly growing numbers of individuals struggling with pornography use, masturbation, and other unwanted sexual behaviors. RECLAIM is a powerful online resource designed to help struggling individuals integrate faith and recovery.

FREE Confession Cards

RECLAIM is currently able to offer Free Confession Cards for clergy! Please request by submitting the blue pop-up form.

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Clergy around the country have been aware for years of the pornography pandemic sweeping through their congregations.  They encounter it in the confessional, in marriage and pre-marriage counseling, in youth, in adults, in women, and men.  Some even struggle with these unhealthy behaviors themselves.
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RECLAIM desires to connect clergy with resources and tools that can assist them in helping the individuals in their congregations break free of sexual sins.  

Helping Those Held Captive By Pornography And other Unhealthy Sexual Behaviors

Catholic Guide for Clergy Priests are searching for ways to help those caught up in the growing pandemic of pornography use and other unhealthy sexual behaviors. This book will assist clergy in reaching out to help heal individuals, parents, couples and families. Authors - Bruce and Jeannie Hannemann.

RECLAIM Confession Cards 

These business card sized RECLAIM information cards can be displayed with other handouts, brochures, etc., placed in restrooms or other discreet areas or handed out at confession. Sold in sets of 50 or 250 cards.

In-Person Clergy Training

RECLAIM has TOOLS to help you SUCCEED in helping those in need.

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Resources for
Counselors & Coaches

RECLAIM can provide support in-between your sessions, which maintains momentum and improves progress. RECLAIM can enhance and harmonize with your therapy. We offer a free Counselor or Coach limited time coupon code to view the videos in the program to be confident in recommending it to clients. We will soon be providing  free online video training designed specifically for Counselors and coaches.

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Resources for Family & Friends

RECLAIM recognizes that family and friends can be a vital support system for a person struggling with pornography and other unhealthy sexual behaviors. To help you better understand how you can be supportive, we have designed a free online training for family and friends.
Available soon!  

FREE online video training

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